The first step to take after a loved one dies is to call the Parish Office at (734) 981-1333. Debbie Miller, Fr. Pat or Fr. James will guide you in the process of funeral planning and connect you to a member of our pastoral team. If you have already spoken with Debbie, Fr. Pat, or Fr. James, please have a family representative you designated complete this form.

Family Representative completing this form:

Full name of deceased:

Birth date of deceased:


Death date of deceased:

OPTIONAL: Funeral arrangement details (if you wish to share any): You may include the name and city of funeral home if applicable, as well as times of any services or viewing. You may also include any funeral service (or Mass) details.

OPTIONAL: Donations to honor the deceased may be made to the following charity or charities:

Include picture (Please email picture to webmaster@abecket.org in any picture format - JPG, GIF, TIF.)

Include full obituary (Please email full obituary as a text file or Word document to webmaster@abecket.org)

As a representative of the estate of the above, I consent to posting an obituary on the St. Thomas a’Becket website to include the information as described above. I understand that I may request that the webmaster remove the obituary at any time by emailing webmaster@abecket.org.